Real Gone Romance
Dailly Record
30th January 1999
Ricky Ross and his wife Lorraine McIntosh have mellowed out since their
heady days singing with Deacon Blue.
Mick Jagger and Rod Stewart may not agree but there comes a time when all
pop stars must grow up.Four years ago Ricky Ross and Lorraine Mclntosh
decided exactly that. Their decision to end an eight year love affair with
Deacon Blue fans appeared to come from nowhere.With an incredible track record
of 19 hit singles, six top 10 albums and hundreds of live appearances, Scotland's
stadium stars seemed to be on a roll. There was no falling out and no acrimony
surrounding the split. Deacon Blue had simply outgrown their phenomenon.
During an exclusive fashion shoot and interview, husband and wife Ricky and
Lorraine seem entirely at peace with their decision to end one of Scotland's
most successful pop exports. Both have carved out new careers. Ricky released
his first solo album two years ago and regularly plays solo gigs to appreciative
audiences. Lorraine's first acting role in award-winning movie 'My Name Is
Joe' with Peter Mullan has opened new doors for the 34-year-old. She has
already had three other roles, and is hoping for a second movie part.
In the sumptuous surroundings of a hotel near their home in Glasgow's south
side, the couple are very much at ease with their new life. Although their
careers remain important, something has changed about the band's former singers.
Their priorities are different. They've tasted success and stardom, they
know what fame brings. Now these pop stars crave normality, routine and the
security of a very ordinary homelife. "On the last two Deacon Blue tours
our older daughter Emer was a baby, " says Ricky. There were some really
lovely moments during that time, but we wouldn't want to do it again. "We
really do have a remarkably normal lifestyle after years on the road, this
is bliss for us." At 41, Ricky's trademark boyish looks are still intact.
The floppy fringe and shy smile that captured thousands of female hearts
haven't suffered through time. He's a quiet, unassuming man, vey easy-going
and good-natured, although behind the self-effacing facade is a sharp wit
and bright personality.
Probably best remembered for such songs as Dignity, When Will You Make My
Phone Ring and Real Gone Kid (their 1989 album, When The World Knows Your
Name entered the charts at No 1), Ricky never truly took to the rock 'n'
roll lifestyle. Brought up in the Plymouth Brethren, a strict Protestant
sect in Dundee, Ricky has always been hard working and stuck to his high
personal values. He stayed at home until he was 21 before marrying young
and turning to the caring professions after leaving university. He still
has his faith, and every Sunday the family - with daughter Emer, six, and
four year-old Georgia -go to their local Episcopal church . "I feel kids
should have a model to work on," he says. "As they get older they may not
want to go in the same direction as us, but I like to think we'll be gracious
about their choices."
Ricky has a 10-year-old daughter Caitlin from his previous marriage, which
ended amid speculation when Lorraine joined the band. He admits to having
a wonderful relationship with his eldest daughter (the couple split around
the time Caitlin was born), and any rumoured bad feeling isn't in evidence.
"When Caitlin was bom I was never at home because I was away from my wife,"
he says. "I missed her growing up. I see her a lot now and am as close to
her as any of the girls. But was I there when she was a baby? No. "lt's something
I find very hard to rationalise and make excuses for. Mums and dads should
be with their kids. "I was determined that would not happen again. When we
had made some money we used it to be close to our children. " Breaking up
the band has obviously taken a weight off both Ricky and Lorraine's shoulders.
Their life now revolves around their family and they admit to being 'boring'
about their social life. "Children need routine and stability," says Lorraine,
"and, to be honest, after years of not having that I love it too. "My acting
is going really well, and it's exciting not knowing what's round the corner,
but the days are over when I'd go on the road for weeks at a time - I've
done that and have no desire to do it again." Lorraine was literally plucked
from acting obscurity when Paul Laverty, the scriptwriter of My Name Is Joe,
approached her about a part. "He's an old friend and thought I'd be right
for the role," says Lorraine. "Fortunately the director Ken Loach agreed
an I was thrown in at the deep end. "Filming for my part took three weeks
and I loved every minute of it. There was nothing at all stressful about
it. "I've always wanted to act, but I fell into singing and didn't know much
about the mechanics of getting into acting. "I didn't even have an agent
for months after My Name Is Joe, and as soon as I got one I got offered more
work - I kicked myself that I hadn't done it earlier." But Lorraine has no
intentions of giving up singing. In fact, given the choice she says she'd
choose music every time. For the last two years she's been writing songs
with musician Brian Docherty, and their band Cub plans to do its first gig
in the next few weeks.
The couple have managed that difficult task of keeping their working lives
separate. They both write and record but not together, for the moment anyway.
"I don't think there's any real competition," says Lorraine. "Ricky would
be delighted if Cub did well - he would be happy to be a kept man!" But there
is a very real possibility that there will be a joint project in the future.
"We've always hankered a notion to do a song together," says Ricky. "Just
because Deacon Blue broke up that doesn't mean we'll never sing together
again. "At the moment I'm looking to get a second solo album out, and since
I'm
no longer with Sony I'm looking for a new contract." In the meantime, Lorraine
will continue with her blossoming acting career. she already has an episode
of Taggart under her belt, is in a new BBC drama called Medical Ethics, due
out in the spring, and has a part in controversial Channel 4 series Psychos,
in which she plays a woman who is wrongly imprisoned in a mental
institution.
But her most important role is that of a mother. Lorraine admits she would
love another baby, but the time isn't right. "Your perspective on everything
changes when you have kids," she says "lt'll he fun showing our grand children
the Deacon Blue videos - though they'll never believe it's us." Ricky and
Lorraine have kept Emer and Georgia well away from the limelight - the closest
they've been to a gig was a soundcheck for Capercaillie a few years ago.
And they don't bat an eyelid when mum or dad appears on TV. "One of the kids
said to Emer in the playground: 'Your dad's Ricky Ross, "' laughs Ricky,
"and she came home saying: 'I know you're Ricky Ross - what does that mean)
I don't think she really understands what mum and dad do." The children are
one of the reasons the family never moved to London.
They're one of the few Scottish exports to remain in their home country.
"It was more difficult when we were touring to live in Scotland, " says Ricky.
" But we always resisted moving, and we're really glad now. "That's what
we both like about our lives now. We have our privacy, we're both doing what
makes us happy and we have a lovely little family. "Life just gets better
as you get older." Lorna
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